Sunday Thoughts

My usual Sunday Thoughts posts have quietly morphed into more of a diary than a collection of random musings. This week feels a little different. I could tell you about everything I’ve done over the past few days, but I don’t really feel like it. I know I’m tired, and when I’m tired my emotions tend to be stronger, so that’s where I find myself today.

I’ve poured my heart and soul into this blog over the years, and I’ve loved seeing it grow. It’s opened doors, introduced me to wonderful people and given me the chance to share everything I love about Sligo.

Lately though, I’ve found myself seeing photos from some fantastic events and gatherings that seem to have brought so many people together. Each time, I’ve felt a little pang of disappointment. It’s not that I expect to be included in everything, far from it, and in truth, there are plenty of occasions I probably wouldn’t have been able to attend anyway. But sometimes it’s just nice to know you’ve been thought of.

I know some of those feelings come from my own struggles with confidence and self-esteem. It’s very easy to let those little disappointments grow into bigger questions and wonder whether what you’re doing is making any difference at all.

Someone said something to me this week that I’ve been trying to hold onto: validation comes from within. It’s wise advice, even if it’s much easier to say than to truly believe on days like today.

So today, instead of ticking things off my to-do list, I’ve been sitting with those feelings and writing them down. That’s one thing this blog has always given me, a place to untangle whatever is swirling around in my head. Somehow, once the words are out in the world, they don’t feel quite so heavy anymore.

I’ll keep doing what I’ve always done: celebrating Sligo because I genuinely love this place. The blog has never been about invitations or recognition. It’s about sharing the people, places and experiences that make this county so special. Every now and then, though, it’s okay to admit that even the people cheering from the sidelines have moments when they wonder if anyone notices they’re there.

And perhaps that’s just one of those Sunday thoughts. Thanks for reading.